Think You're Reluctant To Approach Or Meet Up With Girls?


There is an easy thing that guys could do to raise their confront on approaching women and meeting women.

If you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Instead of trying to escape from the situation, reduce the gradient.

What are gradients? Gradients are just like steps on a ladder. If you try to go to the top of the ladder on your first step, it's going to be extremely hard to accomplish, and you will not succeed. If you keep trying it again and again you will start building up a complex about failing, and soon not try any longer.

By trying to jump up five or six steps in your first attempt, it will also be scary -- not necessarily impossible but scary. And the possibility is that if you have no experience leaping that high you will fail .

The proper approach is to take the initial step and then advance one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable way to climb a step ladder.

While I was a young man I would notice a woman I was drawn to and thought I had to tell her how much I liked her straight away. Well that was leaping up several steps on the ladder. I didn't even know her.

The initial step is a simple "Hi" along with a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as the next step when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, reply to the question, or comment on something that she has her interest on to continue the conversation. For example, if you are in a book shop and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?

Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get to know her prior to deciding that you like her.

Needless to say, there is a whole lot more to it, but these are excellent basics to start with. If you are using gradients eventually you will learn how to meet women.

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