Toddler Discipline Obtaining A Good Balance Of Actions


Being a parent now for nearly sixteen years I can really understand the fine balance between toddler discipline, and squashing the spirit of a young child.

When my first child Ellie was born I was completely new at this thing termed parenting, and I discovered a lot of the parenting books to be contradictory at best and some just plain stupid at worst. This may sound harsh to some new parents who are seeking a right path being a parent.

I can understand being a parent is a tricky business specially when talking about discipline and particularly toddler discipline, if you go for the free range strategy and just let your kids kind of develop in the vain hope all will be well, then you'll probably be living some sort of living nightmare, with your child entirely dictating the agenda and totally running your life.

On the other hand if you opt for total discipline as favored by many over the years, then you run the risk of completely losing the true essences of your children's persona.

I would like to state that their is a holy grail of toddler discipline, that you can follow and tick off the list as you go, and believe me some people would attempt to sell it off to you like that. Just how I see it, it's regarding two core things boundaries and communication especially as your child begins to get to the toddler stage and beyond.

I still find this to be with my 16 and 13 old kids, I have what i call my fall back position, that's as long as I will carry on any given issue, that's my boundary that in most cases my children over a number of years have learnt to recognize, however within those boundaries their is a number of opportunities of freedom of expression and chances to grow as a human being which I personally feel is necessary.

To do this though good communication is essential when implementing toddler discipline, to this end I have been highly fortunate to have learnt things such as NLP that have assisted me shape my language skills and gestures to get maximum engagement with my children.

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